Independence, equality, respect, when these terms become a women’s normal life, do you find that inadvertently, we were spoiled times, start showing the temptation of the modern woman’s multi-dimensional.
The mentality of a smart, of course, enough efforts

She used to everything themselves. Once, because her chief director of the film has become the most watched new star, but abandoned the image of a weak woman, beautiful and smart little insisted vicious posture; once, she simply can not speak to say this in English, relying on a temporary learned , went begging in front of Hollywood director “Hire me, please”, he repeatedly abandoned translators, even if being ridiculed as a child reading the words to speak the same pronunciation; once, chest with peony flowers white skirt did not let her be more and more attention, but she can not stop the improvement of taste, or use plain generous brands bring out the personal temperament, or the selection of old black Armani jacket, and ultimately become “the cover of the Queen.”

Her name is Zhang Ziyi, from Beijing to come to Hollywood, from China to stage Oscar’s ceremony, she spent less than 10 years. Among them, every step is not just to move forward, or go up.

The girl was in, you can find a model of modern women: smart, not smart , but real smart, know what they are doing, will do anything it runs properly. Then, of course, enough effort, they are very clear what they have to, and then seize all the possibilities. Man or the cause of life is no longer all, it is a key to the fate of change.

Today, smart women are smart in essence, they will not be the only use of the wisdom or beauty cosmetic, persistence, responsibility, and seriously, a no less.

2 I have chosen mentality, so I meet

Before the Spring Festival, Albania signed a divorce agreement on officially ending a period of nearly 8 years of marriage. Ah, on the many friends that do not understand: There is no third party, nor the economic situation of the problems, all the reasons just Pistacia described as “inappropriate.”

Pistacia said before the divorce, the company sent her to the field in charge of a pioneering project, a full four months away. This experience made her from their familiar environment by separating it, see themselves what is really needed. “Life more turbulence, but the more difficult to judge the heart. Marriage looks beautiful, there are several sets of real estate, cars, a decent work, he also of their own good, but in fact very emptiness; friend looks a lot, but I do not know which are for personal rather than work to maintain contacts. ”

Today, women can decide their own path of change and unchanged, the rationale behind decisions is their posture and attitude of mind at the time, no discussions relating to other people, much less the material relates to the external. As Pistacia said, we do have choice, always want to do perfectly safe, we do not want to give up now has something, but also want some other. But now we understand that this is impossible, only a few people have such a blessing.

Give up the seemingly happy marriage, give up the high pay and generous benefits, may not be the traditional concept of informed choice. This process will, of course, some psychological cost, but says the well-being must be driven directly or happiness? Perhaps it might be a start full of vitality.

The mentality of 3 “well-off daughter,” the well-being of logic

To work hard to get ahead, and then be happy affluent – heard on the “successful woman” such a definition, do you find it a bit is the antecedent of the consequences of not taking the concept behind? colleagues in 2008 to his plan is to: 1 month to buy their own luxury goods, and prior to her to imbue the concept of lesbians have a lot of people have become the rule of action: 30-year-old former owner must first diamonds, a lifetime list of at least 6 … …

Elders of our generation has been criticized “luxury”, exclaimed “useless”, has died do live frugally, depending on Manolo Blahnik shoes, Louis Vuitton handbags, Chanel suits for the goal. But as the fashion columnist David Fang said, elders, please understand that we have experienced a “disaster” not much, we just “a well-off homes,” the happiness of his daughter, so we do not have sense of inferiority, our ambition is not ambitious.

Economic independence, is to find a role in their lives, does not mean that the role of men and women can be aggressive; to work hard, just to the complexity and confusion in an environment to find a turn for the better, not to come out ahead; As for the success is not the life center of gravity, not to rise to “a woman when the self-reliance” high.

Mentality: optimistic positive

Think of the well-being of a woman, it may well-being; think, unfortunately, will be unfortunate.

Tend to generate well-being of those who can self-regulation in the psychology of people who, unfortunately, often rooted in those who do not consciously produce between themselves unfortunate people. Failure is not terrible, terrible thing is to allow the failure to combat the self-confidence and enthusiasm. Do a free, motivated, optimistic, confident woman, has a treasure of life, everything to the bright side, for the failure of a positive face, self-regulation as soon as possible.

Marriage: the accumulation of love

A woman abandoned by her husband who is a common problem: No make-up, do not dress up, not modified its own; do not know the power of tears; do not know the charm of ; only know that constant use of lethal weapon – a knife mouth. In fact, the feelings of husband and wife is not alone a pair of eyes will be able to maintain vigilance, and get along , calm, respect, all right, but also for life full of love, love of family poured on to be a “woman” it.

Life: Make their own

21 for women and put forward many new ideas to survive: live out the true me; seek open marriage; decide the arrival of future generations; do not give up a person’s skies; enjoy life every day; Society and women’s apartment in dating a close friend; dare the opposite sex in the workplace jungle built under the … … In fact, irrespective of the above-mentioned idea is to have the charm charming woman, or to a strong independent woman, the most important point is: a woman, it is necessary to cherish their own happiness more important than anything else.

Cause: to overcome their own

Today, we still value the cause, because we have to be responsible for their own future, we must continually learn to overcome their own, in the aggressive in self-understanding, self-development. Perhaps we do not deliberately how to build their own more elegant, in a rich career, interpersonal relations, cooperation, creativity, reliability, loyalty, etc. has been entrusted to a woman’s unique character and charm, and as time and the growing stack.